After a recent family trip to Centre Parcs I felt exhilarated, relaxed and I'm sure I had less wrinkles, despite spending hours in the water. This got me thinking 'Why?'. Of course, spending time with loved ones is a great tonic, but I think it was also because I pushed myself out of my comfort zone and did stuff that made me scream like I did when I was a child! I went on one water slide where I really did think I might die and I screamed until my throat hurt. It was great fun, and really made me laugh, once I had recovered!.
My son wanted to try the tree-top challenge, but because of his age an adult had to go with him. Rather than volunteering my husband, I thought I would go for it - a chance for some quality time with my boy.
My heart was pounding from start to finish. My son, aged 5, kept looking back at me and saying
Mummy, your face looks all worried, you're scared aren't you! I'm not scared, this is easy!!!
What wonderful words of encouragement?! I wouldn't say I felt at home on the tree-top challenge, but I felt great when it was over and even got a badge which I wear with as much pride as my kids do. It is just a shame I can't show mine in assembly too.
Facing these new challenges gave me the chance to forget my responsibilities, move out of my comfort zone and have a sense of wild abandon for a little while; much like a child does. How can we recreate these feelings of being young again - when life seemed more fun - on a more regular basis? We are all in danger of getting bogged down with bills and deadlines on a daily basis and forget to find time to have fun. Would finding something new to do help reset the life / work balance?
It's time to stop going into work early and staying late then spending the rest of your time doing chores and feeling too exhausted to enjoy life. It's time to be adventurous, fearless and less afraid to make mistakes... just like when you were a child. So, find some time for YOU, embrace your inner child and see the beauty in the small things.
If this blog has got you thinking you would like to give something new a go here are some links that might help you on your way
Here is a directory to help you find a great indoor rock climbing centre near you. www.ukclimbing.com/listings
This site is a great resource for anyone looking to go to a comedy gig www.chortle.co.uk
Find a drum teacher near you www.drumteachers.co.uk